Westchester’s Only Martial Arts Personal Development Center
For more videos on Self Control and many other Powerful Words teachings,
you can find them on Guro Patrick Consing’s Youtube channel: “Martial Arts Success“
Dr. Robyn Silverman, is Kapatid Martial Art’s Child Development Expert, the founder and creator of the Powerful Words Character Development System provides some helpful parenting tips to parents on how to teach Self Control to children in this video.
For more information about one on one success coaching or one of Dr. Robyn’s World Renowned Parenting Groups, please visit http://www.DrRobynSilverman.com or call her at 877-769-3799.
Self control is a vital part of our character as it allows us to operate in our society in an acceptable way. It’s imperative that our children learn self control because its part of relationship management, violence prevention, and positive problem solving. It is also a foundational component to our children’s success in school and later on in work– not to mention, in life! We are excited for this month’s Powerful Words curriculum that will focus on self control, strategies to control oneself, the benefits and rewards of mastering it, and the consequences that come when the temptation to act out, steal, lie, or cheat overtake it.
Powerful Words Self Control Quotes:
“I am, indeed, a king, because I know how to rule myself.” –Pietro Aretino
“Self-determination is fine but needs to be tempered with self-control.” –Unknown
“If passion drives you, let reason hold the reins.” Benjamin Franklin
“The most powerful people are not those who can exert control over others, but rather, those who can stay in control of themselves.” — Dr. Robyn Silverman
“Remember not only to say the right thing in the right place but far more difficult still, to leave unsaid the wrong thing at the tempting moment.” — Benjamin Franklin
“I generally avoid temptation unless I can resist it.” –Mae West
“A mind, when open, creates a door to possibilities. When closed, it builds an insurmountable wall. Only we can decide which one we construct.”– Dr. Robyn Silverman - Kapatid Martial Arts Academy’s Child Development Expert
December 2009 is Open-Mindedness Month as part of Kapatid Martial Arts Academy’s POWerful Words Character Development program! Students will be studying, developing and experiencing powerful life lessons focusing on how to safely, responsibly, and successfully open their minds. In addition to all of the physical skills that they’ll be developing this month, students will be discussing and practicing the following concepts that will help them to realize the value and benefit of being an open-minded member of our community. Students will be focusing on the following topics both in and out of class:
“Open-mindedness is a wonderful gift to nurture children’s curiosity and expose them to ideas, cultures, foods and people who can positively impact their lives!” says Dr. Robyn Silverman, Kapatid Martial Arts Academy’s child & adolescent expert, and creator of the POWerful Words Character Development program used at the facility.
Patrick Consing, Executive Director of Kapatid Martial Arts Academy says, “Open-Mindedness is going to be a fantastic month here at our school. The opportunity to help our students enjoy the benefits of being open to new people, new ideas and new experiences is really exciting…our students are sure to benefit both here, at school and out in the real world!” We are confident that open-mindedness is one of the deciding factors in helping a person become and stay successful. This month’s curriculum is sure to be life changing for many of our students! We’re proud to be surrounded with spectacular and caring students and are honored to help them develop themselves for a future filled with success.”
Kapatid Martial Arts Academy’s strong curriculum and the POWerful Words Character Development system provide our students with the opportunities to become UNSTOPPABLE in life. These lessons will remain with our students for life and we’re honored to help them achieve the success that they deserve” says Consing.
Dear Parents,
It’s about that time again!! Summer is almost over and soon it’s back to school!! Is your kid excited? Are you anxious?… Well have no fear… I have a great solution for you and I want to invite you to a special teleseminar to help you deal with your child’s back to school fears…
Dr. Robyn Silverman, creator of the Powerful Words Character Development Program, is holding a special tele-seminar for you, to give you powerful parenting strategies to help your child tackle any back to school fears they may have. As you know Kapatid Martial Arts Academy is a a Powerful Words Character/Personal Development Center and we are an exclusive client of Dr. Robyn Silverman here in Westchester County, NY. If you are a parent who wants practical-no-nonsense parenting strategies then this is the tele-seminar for you! The Dr. Robyn tele-seminar is this Wednesday, August 26, 2009 at 8:00 pm Eastern Time…
All you have to do is click on this link —> http://www.drrobynsilverman.com/ts/bts2009/
All I ask is that on the web form, it asks for Powerful School Name, please type in “Kapatid Martial Arts”, so that I can get credit for it… It’s sort of an insider contest to see which Powerful Words instructor can help out the most parents…
Please don’t keep this tele-seminar a secret! Please share this resource with as many parents who would like learn some fear-bustin’ strategies to help their children with the back to school transition…
Here’s the link once again —-> http://www.drrobynsilverman.com/ts/bts2009/
I hope you are having a great summer, most of all a Powerful Day!!
To your success,
Guro Patrick Consing
PS. Dr. Robyn has a new article on her website about how you can get your child active, check it out now and share this resource with other parents —> http://drrobyn.wordpress.com/2009/08/24/how-can-i-get-my-child-to-get-more-active/
Dr. Robyn Silverman introduces the Powerful Word of the Month: COMMITMENT.
Commitment is following thru towards our goals and promises, not only to ourselves but to others as well.
Kapatid Martial Arts Academy is Westchester County’s Premier Martial Arts Personal Development Center that exclusively uses Dr. Robyn Silverman’s Powerful Words Character Development Program.
This month’s Powerful Word of the Month is Courtesy.
Many people believe that courtesy is a lost cause. Manners have been replaced by abrupt abbreviations over email and text and “can I help” has turned into “I just don’t have the time.”
But is time really a concern when it comes to courtesy? Have people just gotten lazy?
Ralph Waldo Emerson once wrote “Life is not so short but that there is always time for courtesy.”
What do you think? As teens, adults, and leaders we have to make the decision.
The children are looking to us to see if courtesy is really necessary or if they can just go, go, go without consideration for anyone else.
Sincerely,
Hello Friends,
How are you doing so far in ‘09? I hope this month’s Powerful Word finds you in good spirit and great attitude. This month’s Powerful Word is Confidence, created by the nation’s leading Child Development Specialist, Dr. Robyn Silverman.
This is one of my favorite martial arts characteristics. If there is one thing that is the outcome of all the training and philosophy of the martial arts it’s the power to believe in yourself. Kapatid Martial Arts Academy prides ourselves in developing the confidence of all the men, women, and children that are members of our academy.
How is Confidence built? - You build up your confidence, one challenge at a time. Once you conquer or tackle a challenge and overcome it, that becomes a stepping stone or platform for you to reach for higher goals and aspirations. When you master a challenge/problem over and over again, it boosts you to see what else you can achieve.
For example, when a child who is shy and timid, and lacks the self-esteem to come to class, the solution there is to just take the first step in class. I wouldn’t throw them right away into the fire, just to see them burn… Baby steps, till they can walk on their own.
The late Martin Luther King Jr once said, “Take the first step in faith. You don’t have to see the whole staircase, just take the first step.“ The goal in the martial arts is to achieve the Black Belt. Now to a beginner that can be like telling you to climb Mt Everest. I’m not going to fool you by saying things will be easy. The path towards your mastery will have many twists and turns along with road blocks. You will get bumps and bruises along the way. As your coach, I am your bumper rails to keep you on the path, on track towards your personal mastery.
Who you and/or child associates with also makes a difference. Surround yourself with positive successful people, you too will be successful. Surround yourself with individuals who are confident in their abilities, you too will gain confidence in your abilities.
But if you hang out with people who are all about doom and gloom, saying things like “But what if I fail? what if things don’t workout as planned?”, you need to put yourself in check and protect yourself against those kinds of people. It’s a bully method. They will justify their attitude and behavior by telling you it’s alright not to take action, because by not taking action you can’t fail. WRONG! By not taking action, you don’t move forward either!
Just like leadership, you are not born with Confidence. It’s not built overnight, but it starts instantly with you. Make the CHOICE to live with CONFIDENCE. DECIDE NOW!
To Your Success,
PS. Here’s this month’s message from the Powerful Words creator, Dr. Robyn Silverman:
PPS. Congratulations Dr. Robyn and Jason Silverman for the birth of their adoptive daughter, Talia Paige!!!